Lady Tiphanie Ma's Mind Emporium

It seems like the masses are up in arms that their favorite Hollywood couple they like to spread rumors about but still push they’re black couple goals. Are extremely upset that Jada has come out and ruin your fantasy even though yall didn’t believe the bullshit neither. 2023 has been a year of hard truths (especially with women) that I have learned. The truth is a lot of you women, never really liked Jada because she was that girl. Two now that she is telling you that her marriage isn’t perfect, yall still hate her. Let me tell you what I learned from some of the small bits I have watched in her interviews. Alot of people these days do not stay in marriages for more than 10 months, so understanding Jada is like trying to understand someone who does not speak their language. Another thing that we can all cannot really understand is have a large amount of wealth as a person of color. Will and Jada have both and good looks and perfect children to add to this. Relating to what Jada is saying is weird because she is the girl that gets what she wants. If you are an 80s-90s baby she was the IT girl of her time. Now she is a middle-aged woman who is expressing to you that she is not in a perfect marriage. Now for us 80s/90s babies we are calling bullshit because she is with not only an attractive man but a rich one as well. What us normal people failed to realize is that rich men have options. Being with a rich man is like being with someone who is in a forever midlife crisis (most 30 and up people know what I am talking about). Women are throwing themselves at him and he can afford to have multi women at one time because he is rich. Now when that man has had that access for more than 30 years….it is a nightmare to a loyal woman. Now when a woman has the same thing, we are expected to be more conservative (I find this to be a ridiculous standard). what you are hearing from Jada is the backlash of the two the worlds. The world where her husband can do whatever and she has to ignore her urges because she is in a certain tax bracket. For some strange reason, yall are mad at her for exposing that. (This is also the same society that blamed Hilary Clinton for Bill cheating on her.) Anyway I just feel like people these days want someone to be angry at but they can’t take it out on the person they want to take it out on, so Jada is the answer. Another reason why Jada would come out is because maybe she does not want someone else to expose her marriage as well. Like August Alsina for an example. After August exposed that things were not what they seemed. It feels like Jada and Will have been cleaning up his mess since. Maybe Jada wanted to tell the truth before anymore side pieces tell the world about her and Will’s little arrangement. I feel like people are doing this a lot lately to beat whatever force that is out there that is exposing the rich and the famous. All I have to say is that I am indifferent to her exposing her marriage. If this confession makes her happy and feel good about herself. I am happy for. She really does not owe anybody any answers to nothing.

A dear friend of mine gave me a screen shot of a page that was moonlighting as a O’Ryan fan page. The funny thing about that is, it is not the actual fan page ran by Firecracker Chi Chi and that other girl. This page tried to copy the original page down to even the people that ran it. The page followed my friend and then message her (that is what they do to get money). I thought this was funny since Firecracker has a go fund me page to help fund O’Ryan’s Island and it only has $50 in (Firecracker’s put the $50 on it). Anyway, this is crazy to me because my friend was going to tell Firecracker (it is like she forgot all the damage Firecracker has done to us). I told her this was Firecracker getting her karma and to let karma do her job. She said OKAY and continued to talk about the group drama. The thing is this. I am very aware due to inside resources that a lot of the girls don’t fuck with each other anymore. They were all using each other to be around Omarion and O’Ryan and that the group fell apart lowkey, when Omarion lost the Verzuz battle. As far as I am concerned, it will not be long before O’Ryan himself figures out the other stuff these girls have been doing to sabotage their lives. I said O’Ryan because I know for a fact that Omarion knows because his best right-hand woman (Miss Michelle LeFleur) knows how women are and will snatch a guttersnipe in 2.5 milliseconds. I know she has already peeped their game and how they work this is why Omarion only let things one and two go but so far. O’Ryan has to figure it out for himself because he has already been told about the problem and now, he has to deal with the ramifications for not dealing with it while it was small. I have had three years now to fix it and now he does even know how to deal with it because it has gotten worse. One someone is hacking his Only Fans account and putting his videos on Twitter/X and two every time he goes live someone is reporting his page. It is going to have to take a woman that he knows and trust to tell him that Firecracker and her squad is no good and that she is hurting him. I would but I do not think O’Ryan trust me so I am going to save face and let someone else tell him. It has been a long time coming and the fake exclusive page is just one of many things that is going to take Firecracker out. You always loose it how you get it.

This has been bothering me. alongside with other stuff that has to do with the girls, but this situation bothered me the most because I thought I really had a friend in you. Just be honest and say that it was not about the money. If you really were a friend to me. You would have understood that I did not have access to my money right away. Instead, you let men divide us. I don’t know what happened in New York but apparently things didn’t work out the way you thought they should have with Mr. Grandberry. (The same thing happened to me at Revolt World but I don’t think he saw me really good. Thats another conversation for another time). Whatever that other nigga said to you. Is not true. I have no reason to spy on any one unless they did something viscous to me. Whatever you thought you were getting away with. You didn’t, it the truth always comes out in the end. Last but not least a man always goes back to his wife because it is cheaper to keep her. I have not seen you since November and yes, I am lowkey worried about you and your health. After all you are only a human being and two, I do not want anything bad to happen to you. With that being said, I don’t understand why you felt the need to drag me over something so small. The only conclusion I have is one your “man” told you who I was or two you had planned this whole-time to expose my finances or the lack thereof. I never lied or denied not being able to do certain things because I was in between jobs. I am not ashamed of my journey into happiness. As for you, whatever your problem is. You need to go to God in pray and a therapist with it. I had no plans against you so your plans against me are uncalled for. In honor of our fav, I only wish you well and that you understand that you have made the bed that you are laying in. Not me. Maybe next time you will not be so willing to fight a battle that is not even yours.

I had a very disturbing dream this morning. It was about babies in the NICU severely damaged. I was wondering why God would give me such a disturbing dream and then I realized something. It wasn’t that I had watched a disturbing clip from Robot Chicken, it was the whole Blueface and Chrisean bullshit that has been bothering me. After watching the LovelyTi on YouTube. I am very disgusted in the two of them, but I am more worried about the environment for the baby than these two guttersnipes with mental health issues. I starting to notice a trend when it comes to children and their fucked-up parents. Let me give you an example. My mother is a 1st grade teacher in the Dekalb County school system. For some reason, this year has been a little rough, so rough that she had to go to the hospital and came home with a cast on her arm rough. You see this she has been having a problem with the children in her class fighting. In a matter of fact, her arm was sprained because she was trying to stop a fight in the class. I know you f them kids squads are saying “Let them fight” but that is against the school’s policy. To let children fight. On top of that, you millennials and Zers love to blame the teacher for why your children behave bad but take no accountability for why they are so angry to begin with. Anyway, after looking at how Chrisean and Blueface carry themselves. I am not shocked at how these children and their children are acting. Look at how Chrisean and Blueface came to be. Their relationship is pure violence. Chrisean destroyed Blueface property and then smeared her blood on his wall saying, “I Love Blueface”. If you think the parents are out of pocket, let’s look at Blueface’s mother Karlissa. The fact that you think it is cute to fight Blueface’s girlfriends is beyond. Who has the time to fight with their son’s baby momma’s. On top of that, let’s not talk about the fucked-up things your other son said that you taught him. The fucked upness is not a one generation thing. It is a generational thing brought on by the grandparents, great-grandparents and great-grandparents. We cannot point the finger at Millennials and Zers alone. This is a generational curse that has held back a lot of people for so long that we do not realize how bad it is. Now some poor teacher is going to have to deal with the anger issues of Blueface and Chrisean (and Jaidyn too) children because all of them to me are unfit. How could you have children with a man who think it is okay to have strippers around you son. Who’s by the way already showing signs of anger issues (check out their footage inside of Footlocker). Next to that, Chrisean Jr.’s penis is already viral because dad is over here trying to make a point to mom. That is in the end, hurting Chrisean Jr. When does this stop!!!!! You wonder what is wrong with these children, the children are being raised by unfits and low lives who think it is okay to treat people like they are disposable when they are not. Instead of focusing on these little bullshit ass gender reveals, pregnancy pictures and over the top ass baby showers. Let’s normalize parents getting therapy before bringing children into this God forsaken world. It is bad enough, especially with black children that society is built against us. The last thing these parents need is their parents (and guttersnipe grandparents) to screw it up for them to. They are already coming in this world on life support. I don’t mean physical life support neither. We have to do better.

I know that everybody is outraged by Erica Mena calling Spice a “Blue Monkey”. Even the outrage is understandable, I can’t help but feel like certain people (Mona Scott Young) are taking this time to do something I have always wanted to do to Erica. To be kind of honest with you now, looking at the bigger picture. Mona was exposing these industry hoes the whole time. If you have not notice the storylines on the “Love and Hip Hop” Franchise are surrounded by rappers, their wives and girlfriends and the groupies that want them. Also, the girls who just wanted a feature (back in the day it use to be screwing for a track). Before Erica was somebody’s wife, she was somebody’s side piece and proud of it. She was even in a throuple with Cin and Rich Dollas. Now she is reaping what she has sown to other women. Now when it comes to the whole racist statement thing, that just so happened to be the straw that broke the camel’s back. Mona has watched women like Erica for decades get what they want out of men and not feel sorry for the women they are hurting. Mona only let it slide that Erica is the way that she is because the whole purpose of having someone like Erica on the show is to expose her ways. Now Mona is going in hard and not letting up. As a black woman I get but after watching the video of the cast confronting Erica. I feel like this is overkill. Do not get it twisted, I cannot stand Erica Mena’s ass but at this point let’s call a spade a spade. This girl has always seen herself as superior to any woman that is darker than her and she bought into the bullshit these grimy men were whispering in her ears just to screw her. Now that the chickens have come home to roost. This does not feel to good to me. I feel like Erica has gotten enough karma for being married to Safaree and she does not need to get beaten up anymore. I think she understand that fat meat is greasy and that some of the men in the industry will say anything just to get you in the bed. You may think she is going to get blackballed but trust and believe people will still work with her. This might even turn her into a republican correspondent on Fox if yall keep pushing. As for Mona, we get it now. We see you; it seems like all of a sudden, these industry people want to come out against the industry now. Well done, Mona.

Yes, yall know I have to tell the truth about this independence talk. Once again this was in Diddy’s backyard, and I find it funny that someone who has made millions off of the back of struggling artist. Would want people to come out against that same industry or is it that the same industry is also fucking you over as well? Is Karma playing her part? Did the mean old white man take your money? I think it is best to say that Diddy has found out the hard way that one, they don’t love your black ass and two you reap what you have sown is truer now than ever. Also, I have found out from very reliable sources that the entertainment industry is not doing too well too. The writer strike is not just for the movie and television writers, it is also for songwriters as well. Yes, last night I was watching Destin Troyce, and he showed a video of songwriters carrying posters and protesting as well. Record labels are not booming anymore because 4of platforms like Tic Tok who making their own stars through the stars. Independent artists are becoming a thing more and more. There’s nothing the record labels can do about it, but the downfall of labels didn’t just start in 2020. The downfall of labels started in 2009. In 2009 labels like Jive, J and Arista Records met their untimely demise due to social media platforms like Myspace and Facebook was promoting and developing artist faster and better than the record labels. A good example of this is Jeffree Starr. Jeffree Starr became famous off of Myspace during the early 2000’s and has become a juggernaut in the makeup industry since then. The late 2000’s and early 2010’s was the transition period of people getting famous off of their own merit without the label. Now in the 2020’s we are looking at every label falling and the independent artist themselves thriving. Every artist that had a hard time during the golden era of the record labels are now thriving. A good example of that is Muni Long and Victoria Monet. Both of these artists had a hard time during the big record label era. Now they are thriving and surviving independently. What we are learning now is how to build our own empire without owing someone else their money back. I love where the music industry is going but there is always somebody out there who will find a way to rip people off. Let every lesson be a blessing and know your value.

This weekend I went to Revolt world and let’s just say that these artists are tired of the games yall labels are playing. My intention was to see Omarion (I did but for some reason he did not remember me). Anyway, I am always going to support people even though there is a misunderstanding. Not only did I see Omarion, I was educated on not only how to be an independent artist, but I was educated on the entertainment industry itself. I would first like to say how shock I was to hear so many artists vouch for independence. When I was younger (19 to be exact) I wanted to be a songwriter and I was eager to be on a record label. Long story short, the spirit of discernment came through and kept me from making that mistake. Now 12 years later I almost messed up and made the same mistake with my podcast. What I learned from Revolt World is that you are your own advocate and you do not need anybody’s validations. That was something that I recently have come to grips with. I am the connection not I need a connection. We get so caught up in believing that someone have to put you on. When you should put yourself on instead. I am happy I did not sign that contract and I am happy that I can make my own connections without anyone else around. Also, we you do things for yourself, you don’t have to change your style up and stay true to who you really are. Now the staying true to who you really are is something that was brough up during the YG interview. Let’s be honest about this. Boosie is still making money because of Boosie not because of someone else making him something that he is not. Yes, Boosie is a controversial character but his fan base love him for staying true to who he really is. when you sign to a label, they want to change you for who you are. I remember two years ago, my wannabe manager wanted to change me. Don’t get it twisted, I wanted a makeover but on my terms. The question is. Would the image he had in mind for me be the same as my vision or something different? The only thing I regret is not being able to speak to Omarion and not having a press pass. I am a podcaster and a blogger, and I should have been there as press instead of a normal bystander. I am still shocked in the stance that Omarion has been taking but I am proud of the man he has become(even though I did not get my hug). The one thing I am shocked about is this happening in Diddy’s backyard, but I guess even he is tired of doing the devil’s work.

Once again someone Freudian slip how they feel about Black people (especially black women). Of course, it was Erica Mena and no I am not shocked. What we as black, African or even indigenous people need to understand is that. Erica Mena was raised to believe that black is bad. Even black people are raised to believe black is bad. You can’t help what society has done to anyone that is of African descent but for Erica to call someone a “Blue Monkey” is uncalled for. Now let me tell you why I am not shocked. Yall remember a few weeks ago when I wrote about a Tubi film director who has a taste for light skin men with big lips only casting light skin women in his movies???? Guess which Love and Hip-Hop star is his favor star??? Erica Mena. Erica has always thought that she was superior just because rappers were all up her ass. Now that she has gotten a taste of her own medicine. all of sudden it is woah is me. My question is, why do women not have sympathy for women who get cheated on but expect ever one else to have the same empathy? I’m not saying it is okay what Safaree is doing to her but where was her empathy for other women???? Anyway, to know that she said something racist, or colorist is not above her because she has always felt like she was better because men lied to her and told her that she was. The other question comes along the line of what Scrappy said. Why did production think this was cute??? Just like ole white boy on Big Brother. Are yall trying to start a race riot????? They knew at least weeks in advance that this guttersnipe was going to say this and didn’t put a disclaimer or nothing before the episode. At this point it’s a big fuck you to black people. If I was part of the cast of Love and Hip Hop, I would be protesting against these microaggression personally, but I guess when the check is good. You can’t say nothing. As a black person I am so over people acting like our feelings and mentals don’t matter. I am over people thinking that we are least than human. If you know someone is out of pocket. Please check them because the last thing you want to check you is the Zer’s babies. The Z babies do not play!!!!!! Her being fired still does not fix the problem of microaggression and racism. All it does is make her the face of racism and not the true face of racism. Of course, Erica Mena is a guttersnipe but at the end of the day. Production was very aware of the greenlighting of this episode. It is not okay that this was greenlighted without a disclaimer.

Ever since I have started my new job. I have noticed a trend going on that I don’t know what to feel about it. Don’t get it twisted, this grew legs all the way back in the late 90s early 2000s. Now it has a full body, and it is affecting everybody. I was not going to say anything because one I am a woman in my 30s who don’t know the top 40 hits of 2023 right now, but it was a video i saw on Instagram. The video was of a woman talking about how today’s trendsetters are dressing like strippers. At first, I brushed it off but then I thought back to the whole Keke Palmer debate. Long story short, this woman is telling the truth. Don’t get it twisted, I didn’t see anything wrong with Keke Plamer’s outfit but I’m not going to lie. Her outfit was giving Playa’s Club realness if you ask me. I am not a modest preacher or a whore shamer but when I see society going to hell in a hand basket. I have to call it out. I will admit to wearing lingerie to a party before, but my lingerie still left a lot to the imagination. It seems to me like people are having a see-through contest with their outfits with the pasties and all. I know people have felt like Lil Kim’s 1999 MTV video music award show lavender jumpsuit was revolutionary, but I feel like it was the start of something that has since gotten worse throughout the years. What some people failed to realize is that Lil Kim’s outfit was a homage to the strippers. The pasty’s part to be exact. now in 2023 it seems like every female rapper is either dressed like a porn star (some of these rappers are actual porn stars too) or a stripper. Just like the male rappers it seems like the female rappers are actually living that life. Even admitting to getting STDS/STIS. At what point do this stop? Don’t get it twisted once again I don’t look down on strippers or people who are sex workers, but it is not a lifestyle that should be praised. It is one of those jobs you do temporarily just to get through college or to help you find something else to do. It is very taxing on the workers body’s and is detrimental the vagina in general. It baffles me that we live in a world that is okay with the career but is not okay with doing better is something I don’t want to understand. You don’t want young girls out there thinking that they have to do something strange for a little change. I am good with women sexual liberation but i am not okay with the exploitation of women’s sexuality. I am not pretending like going to college and getting a job is not hard work (i had a hard time getting a job in my 20s) but you don’t want your daughter using her body to get what she wants.

If you have been tuning into my podcast. You have heard of me talk about my business woes and how becoming legit is not easy. I chose to get a job (still working on my businesses) to help with the financing. The crazy part about this is. While going through my own process I have watch so many try and epically fail because they simply don’t know the law. One of those people I have paid close attention to is Chef Pii. If you do not know who Chef Pii is. Let me tell you who she is. Chef Pii is known for being the pink sauce creator. She has been heavily criticized for not understanding the rules and regulations dealing with the FDA and most importantly her sauce not being up to code. She has arrogantly been prancing around talking about her sauce. Although, it has grown legs. Now it has come back to bite her in her pink sauce making ass. Recently Chef Pii has filed for bankruptcy which to me is weird because one. I trying to figure why hasn’t she taken advantage of this Barbie core shit and two once again the same person who was selling unregulated sauce. Is now bankrupt because clearly, she is not the sharpest knife in the kitchen. Now I don’t know the full story but I’m guessing that she sold the pink sauce to a billion-dollar company. Who in return gave her a nice lump sum. Now she aint seen that many zeros in her life so she thought it would last. Long story short she is bankrupt. Even though she is saying it is a business deal that has gone wrong. I have a feeling that Chef Pii didn’t read the fine print of her contract. It is no secret that Chef Pii a.k.a Veronica Shaw is dumber than a box of rocks and that big companies love to take advantage of the dumb and docile. Unfortunately for Chef Pii this is a hard lesson she has to learn after embarrassing a white woman on t.v. People warned you and you called the haters. What more could life bring this woman???This is not the first or last time you are going to hear a story about a hoodbooger thinking she beat the system when the system was beating them in the process. Read books and learn about business before you start doing it.