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It is your time to tell the whole truth sir.

Monyee has finally came out and confirmed what you said in 2007. Now it is your turn to shut your cousin down. Once and for all. Heavy is the head that wears the crown, and your crown has always been heavy. You were the first to come out against how the entertainment industry work when it was not popular to do so. People have allegedly died being truther. Now everybody wants to come out and tell their truth. You were given the stage before and now it is time for you to come forward with a documentary. In a matter of fact doing a YouTube series produced by you should be something you do. Tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. You will not get the same consequences as you did before. This time you can freely explain to people who did not know about what happened to you. Also, if you can get any member of your group to come forward, let them. The stage is set for you, and we are all rooting for you to tell your story. You do not need any big networks to air your story because your name is good enough. Just tell everybody what happened and what you went through. Trust me when you finally admit to what happened to you, other people will not mind coming out as well. You are not the only one that can be the light in the darkness and with your journey. You do not have to be alone dealing with your problems because you are the only one. Millions of black young men need someone to help them talk about their abuse. Alot of young black men are very angry and tend to take their anger out on the wrong person. Just like how you did me. I never in my life forced myself onto anyone and do not have plans to do that. I understand that our short interaction was a misunderstanding, but I do not appreciate being belittled and berated in Atlanta. Unlike you, I live here and have family here. It is unfair for you to even insinuated ruining my life in Atlanta. You know how it feels so why do something like that to me??!!! Long story short your main focus should have been to heal and to help other men like you to heal so that they can be better husbands, fathers and sons. You do not want to end up like Roger who will be alone and by himself after his teen bride outs him do you??/

Why all the Sexxy Redd hate???

The one that has been baffling me lately is how men/people in general do not like Sexxy Redd. I am not really a fan, but I have no issue with her because she did nothing to me or anyone I know. To see people who are as hood or ghetto if not more ghetto than Sexxy Redd to judge her harshly just for breathing is beyond me. It is almost a form of self-hate when you really look deeper into it. The thing that I find to be funny is that most of these dude’s baby mothers are a sexy Redd type of girl. I understand her music requires taste, but this is your lifestyle she is doing music about. How are you mad when you as a normal everyday person have normalized being “ratchet”. How you mad that the entertainment industry heard you complaining about the Minajs and Cardis and Sexxy Redd is what you get. I find it funny how as black people we claim to be “positively” black but will shun someone like Sexxy Redd because yall feel like she is too ghetto. I understand that Sexxy Redd is not the best influence, but her music is for grown folks and grown folks are an audience. For anyone that has children to think that it is okay for them to listen to Sexxy Redd, something is wrong with you. There used to be an understanding that certain things are for adult consumption, but this is also the generation of parents who thought it is cute that ten-year-olds are using anti-aging creams. My point is a child’s place is listening to Coc Melon and Kids Bop. Turn on the Sexxy Redd after you drop them off for school. Another thing to all of the black men acting like they are above being with a Sexxy Redd. How can you judge someone who makes more money than you do. As for Sexxy Red congrats are your beautiful buddle of joy and I am wishing you nothing but love, peace and prosperity momma.

Um Diddy get your Bebe’s Kids

First and foremost, if you are new here. Welcome to my blog I am the one and only blogger here Lady Tiphanie Ma or Lady Ma. I like to introduce myself to all of the new people on here. I talk about celebrities and other things that may spark my interest. Today’s topic is Diddy’s Bebe’s kids, also known as Saucy Santana, Caresha and JT. I will have to admit that in the end before Diddy was outed. He really tried helping the children with disadvantages. He dated Caresha to help her continue the narrative that she is a bad bitch, and he even boosted their careers. There is one thing I do not understand about the youth that Diddy was helping is. Do they understand that he is fired???? Diddy is no longer a billionaire, and he is canceled for life. This means that the City Girls are officially over and that Saucy needs to find a reality T.V show to be on. Why are Caresha and Saucy going around talking with their whole chest like Diddy is still supporting their hood rich lifestyle?? Caresha got into an argument with Armon Wiggins because she is still mad that she, Saucy and JT had to be in a suite with Youtubers at Beyonce’s concert. Diddy had a suite, but the hood boogers were not allowed to be inside of the suite. Diddy’s children and recent baby mama were in that suite. Saucy over her lusting after Charles since he cannot get gigs because he likes to get paid and do not do shows. They all have run their course but refuses to sit down. Except JT who has been spending her time actually making music. My question is who is going to break it to them that one they have no pull anymore and two nobody likes you!!!!! I have tried so hard to save my opinion about the City Girls and Saucy but now I have to say something. From the get-go everybody and their momma knew that the City Girls were a joke as soon as Caresha admitted that she was in the 4th grade at 14 and JT went to jail. I feel like Diddy took on Caresha as a pet project to see if he could make her a star. It worked up until now, but it was obvious to me that the City Girls were DOA. As for Saucy, Saucy girl you are a gimmick honey. You see the entertainment industry uses the LGBTQTIA+ community to make it seem like they are inclusive. Nobody was going to take you serious as a lyricist one and two now you have ruined your reputation because you threatened to sexually assault DJ Akademik. Saucy you are forgetting that even though your image is feminine you are still s big burly black man, right??? It is bad enough that part of your couture is a beard, but you look like a linebacker that plays for the Ravens. You were getting really arrogant over here taking promoters money and not doing the show over some fried chicken sir. Do you not realize the jokes people are saying behind your back when you walk away??? The respect you almost had is gone due to how you treat promoters and people you feel like are inferior to you. I am hoping that Diddy is a lesson to you for what not to do when you are at the top. As a creative and someone who has a love for music, I am so sick and tired of the entertainment industry basically laughing in my black face and telling me that I like this or that this is how a black woman is or a nonbinary person is. I feel like these last few years the music industry has shitted on me and told me that I was too dumb to listen to good music. Every genre with white people in it has evolved but hip hop has become more ignorant and distance to the actual everyday life of the average black person. Most Black women in general are not taught to be Golddiggers and to twerk their asses obsessively and not all black men have a bunch of kids with a bunch of women he does not love. (Also is not secretly gay as well). I am so sick of people like the City Girls slipping through the system just to give out a message that you can rob a man and get away with it. JT did not get away with nor did Caresha stinky ass momma too. Which by the way did y’all see how this clown of a felon acted after being release from prison?? This woman was sitting courtside at a basketball game like any of those men wanted her. Girl you are old enough to be most of those basketball players mom honey. I cannot stand delusional people and their gospel. Caresha lucked up really good and was able to enjoy these last few years as Diddy’s arm candy because her ass is about to end right back to where she started. Another thing, it is not cute to be rude to anybody I do not care how much money someone has, it is not okay to be nasty to ANYONE!!!! Now it is time for these three to have a seat and to build their own reputation without Diddy’s pull. I have popcorn and I am ready to see the shitshows that is about to adore us in the next year. Not laughing at them but learning what not to when I get to the top boo. Good luck yalls.

Lemmie your time is up sir!

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – APRIL 10: (L-R) Lemuel Plummer and Natalie Nunn attend Zeus’ 1st celebrity brunch celebrating CEO Lemuel Plummer’s birthday on April 10, 2021 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Arnold Turner/Getty Images for Zeus Networks)

Yesterday while I was watching Youtuber the LovelyTi, she was talking about the storm that is brewing over there at the Zeus network. One of the girls on Baddies named StunnaGirl basically ratted out the whole cast (specifically Natalie) for sleeping with Lemmie and Lemmie for giving out the clap (Allegedly). I have told you guys before that the Zeus Network days are numbered and now the countdown is starting. You already had lawsuits from Blac Chyna, Toxic Toni and even Omarion in the past. Joseline and her husband were sued for pulling a girl’s hair out and now you have one of the Baddies spilling tea that you had favorites one and two Natalie is nothing like a nun. This is not the first time Natalie has been accused of being on the hoe express. One of the Baddies outed her and said that she was getting the Cleveland Steamer in Dubai for cash before she produced the Baddies on Zeus. Regardless of if this is true or not, having a reputation like this is not good. Especially if you are a mother of a young child. The truth is that Natalie was always known for being a “Hollywood Hoe”. In a matter of fact, she kind of presented herself as a groupie on the original Bad Girls Club on Oxygen. Her goal was to sleep with Chris Brown (not sure if she accomplished this or not. I just know that she was invited to one of his shows). She brought Marcus Paulk (also known as Myle’s Moesha’s brother) on the show and was flirting with him like he was the hottest think on the planet. I have no clue what Natalie ‘s connections are (I am getting the vibes that she was a club promoter) but she had them. Now she is famous for being a loudmouth bully on t.v. Natalie tried to do the bad girl/baddie thing years ago and charged people $2k to audition. It did not come to fruition until now and she has a male edition with my archnemesis on the last edition of the show. The difference between BGC versus Baddies is that girls were sent home for putting hands on each other. Now the ones who fight the most get to stay. Apparently earlier last year Nunn thought that she was going to be invited on the Breakfast Club to do an interview and found out the hard way that she was never scheduled to be on the Breakfast Club. It appears to be that Nunn is overblowing how popular her show is and that her ego once again is getting the best of her. Now that one of the cast members of Baddies is outing everyone, this is where Lemmie gets outed, and Zeus put out a statement claiming to be “investigating” the allegations. Lemmie is not really the HNIC over there I heard as well (Toxic Toni said it first and I believed her, but I also looked it up). The boss at the Zeus Network is a white woman named Amanda Cerny who founded Zeus with two other people (Destorm Powers and King Bach).All three of these individuals are personalities within themselves. Now Lemmie is the CEO but if you understand how business work, you will have an understanding that Lemmie is not the owner he is just the overseer of the overseer. This also means that he can be replaced by someone else with the same vision as him or to continue to the vision. My question is what was the plan for Zeus in the beginning and if it is still at hand or changed to rachet in the process? All I know is that Zeus has a lot of questions they need to answer and a lot of lawsuits in the near future. I also found out that Lemmie was married which is weird to me because I thought he was gay.

The Crack is A crater now.

It went from Tiny complaining about the Neighborhood Talk showing the video T.I. posted on social media of her looking rough to now actions being taken for T.I.’s foot inside of a woman. Not to mention before all of this mess Tiny and T.I. were arguing in the car when T.I. got pulled over by the cops. It just seems like the Harris clan cannot catch a break. Ever since the whole Diddy situation has happened all rappers are being looked at with a fine-tooth comb. T.I. and Tiny should have known that this case was not going away. The problem with the Harris Family is that instead of living their lives privately. The Harris family is loud and proud. Every time you look around, they’re in the headlines doing something. They were blessed that the first lawsuit had reached its limit of saturation but instead of enjoying life like a normal family. Your son acting like a fool, and you are always making comments about women and how they should be while you are struggling to be a man all at the same time. Life has a funny way of humbling you and right now The Harris Family is being humbled. Now let’s get this straight, this is not the case dealing with Ms. Paterson, Peterson whatever the hell her name is. The case with her was thrown out. With Peterson’s case the law saw right through what she was doing. Now I am not going into details about Peterson but long story short she was riding dirty too and was using a former mayoral candidate in Atlanta to do her dirty deeds. The Harris’s are now suing her, which they should rightfully so. This still does not get rid of their dirty deeds they did as well. Do not get me started about how y’all treated our dear Ol friend Ms. Shekinah when she was defending you two of the lawsuits that will not go away. I find it funny when a single woman needs someone to defend them that no one wants to defend her, but she will defend you with her life (Ms. Peterson bought shawty’s name) and all of a sudden, she is a dizzy bitch. Now the Harris’s are wondering why is life hitting them so hard?? It’s called karma and everybody and their momma is doing some reaping these days. The allusion is disappearing, and the walls are crumbling so what is a family to do if they do not have a reality t.v show, nobody is making money off of an album and now Tiny is grooming the youngest member of the family to make y’all rich? Zonnique is doing a soon to be cancelled again person’s movies, King thinks that well…he is a king and Deyja can’t have sex and is cutting herself. It seems to me that the Harris Family needs to go into hiding until the storm passes over. Of course, the only two who are going to suffer are T.I and Tiny but the children will be fine. I forgot to mention that Zonnique is also into the same type of lifestyle as her parents. Apparently, she likes girls, and her baby daddy is only with her because he thinks she is made of money. Do me a favor and lay low for one more year maybe even two. Like I said the parents are going to reap the consequences not the children but let the children learn from their parents’ mistakes and do better. As for Deyja, baby girl goes to someone’s college honey.

Trina Da Baddest Bitch

Before I start my rant, I would like to say, Happy New Year and welcome to 2024. With that being said, someone said something out of line during the last part of 2023. I worked Christmas Eve and the day before New Years Eve, so I was too tired to come back on here and come for the “Diamond Princess”. I decided to do that today. I would like to say that I am highly confused at Trina giving her opinion on Nicki Minaj. Out of all of the legendary female rappers (Salt-N-Pepa, Mc Lyte, Queen Latifah so on and so forth) you chose Beyonce???? Now this explains why shawty never got bigger than being part of the cast of “Love and Hip Hop”. You have no respect for your foundation Ma. Do not get it twisted, Beyonce is a very talented woman, but she is not the queen of Hip hop. As a southern woman slick shade and this pisses people from New York and LA off about us. Hell, it even pisses me off because if you are a bad bitch, you can say out loud that you don’t like Nicki. Hell, I even said out loud I did not like Nicki Minaj. I am starting to notice a trend among us women that I do not care for. Trina feels like she put Nicki on. She has a point but Nicki being cosigned by Trina did not skyrocket her career, her cosign from Lil Wayne is what put her on. If you have carefully been following Nicki, she was associated with Trina in the beginning. At the time Trina was trying to get broken off by Wayne(allegedly) and Nicki and Wayne’s career soar during the 2010s. The person’s career that did not soar is you guessed it, Trina’s. Trina’s career has been stagnant for so long that nobody remembers her last hit (if I am not mistaken the song she did with Kelly Rolland). Now she is on Love and Hip-Hop Miami telling another female artist that they need her cosign. Now where was she when the City Girls needed a cosign??? When you think of the best female hip hop artist Trina has never been that girl. I do not recall her winning the any awards (including the black ones) for her work. For her to now turn on Nicki because Nicki did not come back and help a sister out, shows her character not Nicki’s. Now can Nicki help someone who during the 2010’s was chasing after rappers and athlete’s dick???(allegedly). Trina should have taken Trina more serious not an up-and-coming juggernaut. Another thing just because you felt like you put someone on does not mean they owe you anything. This also goes to Nicki who feels some kind of way about up and coming rapper’s using her too. You do because you want to see another woman do well in the world not for more fame. Before I conclude this blog, I would also like to mention that Trina is the same Trina who people thought was shading Solange’s wedding pictures back in the day and now you want to praise Beyonce?? To be honest you do not like Beyonce neither, she is just a scape goat in your anger that you never became as big as the other rappers everyone love today. It is your fault not Nicki’s.

How Diddy being exposed has brought attention to the black clergy?

I have recently noticed that Bishop T.D Jakes has been getting a lot of heat lately and it has brought more attention to the mega church pastors once more. I cannot help but think about the past before I talk about the present. This morning I found a video on YouTube talking about the legendary Rev. James Cleveland and of course Bishop Eddie Long. We all know about Bishop Eddie Long, but Rev. James Cleveland is someone who has been on my radar since the Cynthia Ervio version of Aretha Franklin Biopic. The question I had was who was the fathers of Aretha’s children one and two there is something about Rev. James Cleveland. I have heard his music before and seen images of him because I am from a family of people who love gospel music. For some reason, Mr. Cleveland just rubs me the wrong way. Just like Harvey Pierre. After watching this video, all I have to say is that what you do in the dark will come to light one and two I hope the guy who came out after he had passed, was not lying because you also reap what you have sown. Yall check the video out.

I feel like this, someone had to start the perversion for the perversion to exist. Diddy is not the first music mogul to abuse someone and unfortunately not the last. I have always felt some kind of way about certain people mentoring young pupils when it comes to the entertainment industry and other industries. Anytime you have someone being “mentored” by someone who is well known. I start to wonder what is so special about the pupil and how did the pupil get the mentor’s attention? The messed-up part about that is that even the pupil does not understand how they got the mentor’s attention. Now I know it is all about the mentor’s being attracted to the pupil in a sexual way. The point I am trying to make with this is that. Sometimes when you are young, you think that having a very well-known mentor is a good way to start out when the truth is. Do you really want to be mentored by someone who has so much power to where they can have you killed without anyone noticing? People like this use their power to persuade everyone into believing that they are God like figures. When the truth is that they are just basic ass humans like they rest of us. Especially when you come after people in the church like Rev. Cleveland. People act like you are crucifying Jesus all over again. If a child is telling you that he got hurt by someone, why do we question the child and not the adult??? The issue with pastors like Cleveland and Long is that they are filling a fatherly hole into these young men lives for the single mothers, but the single mothers are not doing their job protecting their sons and daughters from the perversion of Cleveland and Long. You are wondering why your children are so angry? This is why, do not let me get started on these sport coaches as well. I also almost forgot the Catholic church in the bunch. When you are in a society that is desperate for father figures, discernment goes out the door. Regardless of if Jakes and Cleveland did these things, people should have treated them like men instead of assuming that they can fix all of the problems. There is only one creator, and it is not these men. Be careful who you let around your children.

Sassy Idiots

Recently I got into an argument with someone in the comments section of a blog post. I made a comment about how the men in the video (Chad Ochocinco and Terrell Owens) are saying that they want a woman to eat what she wanted to eat during the date and not order a salad (I’m paraphrasing). My comment was basically yall would not give that kind of woman the time of day. I did not expect so many men to get so upset with a truthful statement. If anything, I expected backlash from other women. Why did these men think that I was dissing black men one and two why you are mad at facts??? Then it became a conversation about me losing weight. Honey when I tell you that I have never in my life have to defend a true statement before. The other guys were trying to be so called nice, but it was the other guy calling me Biggie is what got me. His last statement of you made this about yourself Biggie pissed me off so much because one I was not about me or them. It was about Chad Ochocinco’s comment and two it felt like no one was listening and instead they were just reacting to the comment I made. Long story short, Instagram banned me from commenting on the blog site page and I reported ol boy even though I wanted to rip him apart with his slow self. The thing that bothered me was the assumption of me attacking black men one and two how sassy the men were. I have notice how thin-skinned men have been lately about being criticize for being fathers and husbands/lovers. Men have become so thin skinned now to the point to where you have to almost kiss their ass to calm them down. My question is in my Iyanla Vanzant’s voice, who can check you?? I am one of those people where I can take constructive criticism, but I will not take a jab for nothing. I am pretty tough to be honest with you. I have delt with a lot of people claiming that they are constructive criticizing me are mostly hating, but with what I saw in the comments section screamed insecure. I am an overweight woman but not to the point to where I cannot walk or that I am not lazy. For the criticism to get to the point to where you are understanding the point I was trying to make and to attack me for stating something is true which is that neither one of the well-known men who would not want to be with a woman who eats like a man one. Also, these men wouldn’t even go for someone who is even a light skinned black woman. I do not understand how it got to the point to where I was attacking black men. The point I was making was not a discussion piece, it was a mindful thought process unlike my critics with their buffoonery. Me realizing and noticing this has led me to look back over my life and see that this toxic trait is nothing new. I notice when men or let’s be honest boys are severely insecure about themselves, they get mad at you for their insecurities instead of trying to figure out why they are insecure. They bring up yours and think that they fixed their issues without realizing they still have their insecurities. I have noticed the most insecure people have the greatest comebacks and swear that they ate, read you your rights or whatever they think they are doing. when it all actuality, they showed you their biggest insecurity. Trust me when I say that I am still pissed about the Biggie statement, but I am more pissed that I entertained the imbeciles of the comment section. For “men” to attack a woman for s truthful statement baffles me because if I said something to the effect of well if you want a woman that eats, date me. I would have had an exact opposite effect. I would have been told that I was delusional to think that he would want a woman like me. I do not understand this society and how it works. It almost like everybody wants to fight now and ask questions later. They do not want to understand where you are coming from and where you are coming from. Another situation I got into was at my job where the new girl was trying to escalate a situation dealing with my badge. I had been working there for months but it shows you how someone who has the wrong heart can escalate a situation. I have already stated in my podcast that I do not have room for those type of people anymore. It does not make any sense that men these days are bigger bitches than woman. I expect women to act a certain way, but it is damn ridiculous how these so-called men act now. How you made about something that has nothing to do with you? I have notice that you also have to be careful with thin skinned bans because they will kill you just for a misunderstanding. The last few stories I have seen with not only men but with young women killing people over a misunderstanding. This 19-year-old girl killed a mother of four at McDonald’s!!! I am pretty sure this dumbass little girl has no remorse and feels like she is making a statement to the world when in all actuality, she is sowing bad seeds. It seems that sowing bad seeds is becoming a popular thing, but it is raising a whole generation of bad seed reaping in the process. This goes back to the severely hurt babies I was talking about in one of my older posts. There are going to be inheriting a bad raping because their parents are choosing to be foul and not do better. I feel bad for those babies but in my next post. I will do a deeper look into that dream because I feel like it was warning me about the war with Hamas.