Angry Little Boys

I have been noticing people talking about this guy deemed “Ninja Turtle” looking ass nigga. Once I figured out what was going on. I found out something even more horrifying dealing with this Ninja Turtle. It all started on this YouTube channel called “Pop the ballon or find love”. It is a group of guys or girls who are holding a ballon. The person of the opposite gender (so far this show is pretty much very heterosexual). Have to make sure that the men or women do not pop their balloon. When the men or women pop their balloon, it means that they are not interested in that individual. There have been several different guys and girls on the show, but this one guy gave everybody (including even men) a nasty taste in their mouth. Due to the fact I cannot recall this assholes name. I will be referring to him as Leonardo. For some strange reason, Leonardo has it in his head he is the best thing could happen to anyone (any black woman). The first people the host talks to are the ones that popped their balloons. When the host ask them why they popped their balloon, most of the women where not disrespectful. Since he was rejected and he is a fragile BAN, he felt the need to give a negative response back. Most of these black women were beautiful so I get why he would be mad that they rejected him. Long story short, one girl chose him just because she wanted to get off of the show but ended up not going on a date with him. Now what transpired next, spiraled into why dating shows need to do background checks on people before they get on the show. These days the internet has become the judge, jury and executioner. Leonardo became so unlikeable that people called his place of work to get him fired. Do not get it twisted, Leonardo is an asshole, but no one should lose their job because they are an asshole. Not too long after that a Hispanic woman came out and told a story about Leonardo being extremely toxic and abusive. She said that when she would be leaving from work, he would be in the parking lot waiting for her. He kept calling her to see if she was really at work and in the end, he put sugar in her gas tank. She said that the women in her family warned her about him being a psycho and worst of all he tried to isolate her from her family. She was not the only woman who came out. Another woman came out claiming that this man was a psycho. Of course, Leonardo claims that she is lying on him but how he reacted the rejection he got on this YouTube channel. He clearly has issues. In a matter of fact, I have experience this with a man. Who so happened to be extremely buff, but he was more attractive than Leonardo. He gave me these vibes. Is it me or are men angrier than they use to be?? When it comes to black men in particularly, I get where their anger is coming from but to take it out on all black women is crazy. I do not believe all black women are the same. Same thing with black men but the black men and women that have the internet in a chokehold are the very angry ones. I am not going to lie I have anger issues too, but I would never do the things that these people are doing. Going through people phones, going off on people in the comment section over someone and following someone is called stalking. No, I have never done anything like this, but I have notice due to popular consensus that people have normalize stalking people. This is not a healthy way of going about things at all. I am one of those type of women where when I am in a relationship. I do not want to be bothered all the time. Due to a whole generation of children dealing with being neglected by family and friends. Now as adults, their coping mechanism is worst now than it was before. I can never forget being friends with girls and losing their friendship due to not checking in on them because I like my own company. People do not like being by themselves, this is natural but to try to force people to be around you is very extreme. Sometimes you have to learn how to be by yourself. even when you are in a marriage and have a thousand children around. You will feel lonely. This is why fulfilling yourself before you get married and have children helps with how to cope with being alone. I know I am productive when I am by myself. When I have to be around someone all the time, I cannot do my best. You cannot make a relationship your life’s work. The other thing I want to address is the angry little boy syndrome some of these men have developed. It is basic psychology that men will act like this because they do not want to be rejected. The question I have dealing with this is, t what age do you stop love slapping girls? This has turned into abuse because guys have this false since that being mean to women is what women want. THIS IS NOT TRUE!!!!!! Women want to be loved and touched and cuddled. Women do not like arguing and fighting all the time. At the end of the day, we want to be able to lay on your chest after a long day of work. Nobody wants to fight or argue with you about how insecure you are and how your mother did not wash your ass. I am personally sick and tired of this whole I am a high valued man and I hate black women narrative, and I am ready for the generational wealth and group economics talk. Until then I will be sitting in my room building my brand and sipping tea.