Sassy Idiots

Recently I got into an argument with someone in the comments section of a blog post. I made a comment about how the men in the video (Chad Ochocinco and Terrell Owens) are saying that they want a woman to eat what she wanted to eat during the date and not order a salad (I’m paraphrasing). My comment was basically yall would not give that kind of woman the time of day. I did not expect so many men to get so upset with a truthful statement. If anything, I expected backlash from other women. Why did these men think that I was dissing black men one and two why you are mad at facts??? Then it became a conversation about me losing weight. Honey when I tell you that I have never in my life have to defend a true statement before. The other guys were trying to be so called nice, but it was the other guy calling me Biggie is what got me. His last statement of you made this about yourself Biggie pissed me off so much because one I was not about me or them. It was about Chad Ochocinco’s comment and two it felt like no one was listening and instead they were just reacting to the comment I made. Long story short, Instagram banned me from commenting on the blog site page and I reported ol boy even though I wanted to rip him apart with his slow self. The thing that bothered me was the assumption of me attacking black men one and two how sassy the men were. I have notice how thin-skinned men have been lately about being criticize for being fathers and husbands/lovers. Men have become so thin skinned now to the point to where you have to almost kiss their ass to calm them down. My question is in my Iyanla Vanzant’s voice, who can check you?? I am one of those people where I can take constructive criticism, but I will not take a jab for nothing. I am pretty tough to be honest with you. I have delt with a lot of people claiming that they are constructive criticizing me are mostly hating, but with what I saw in the comments section screamed insecure. I am an overweight woman but not to the point to where I cannot walk or that I am not lazy. For the criticism to get to the point to where you are understanding the point I was trying to make and to attack me for stating something is true which is that neither one of the well-known men who would not want to be with a woman who eats like a man one. Also, these men wouldn’t even go for someone who is even a light skinned black woman. I do not understand how it got to the point to where I was attacking black men. The point I was making was not a discussion piece, it was a mindful thought process unlike my critics with their buffoonery. Me realizing and noticing this has led me to look back over my life and see that this toxic trait is nothing new. I notice when men or let’s be honest boys are severely insecure about themselves, they get mad at you for their insecurities instead of trying to figure out why they are insecure. They bring up yours and think that they fixed their issues without realizing they still have their insecurities. I have noticed the most insecure people have the greatest comebacks and swear that they ate, read you your rights or whatever they think they are doing. when it all actuality, they showed you their biggest insecurity. Trust me when I say that I am still pissed about the Biggie statement, but I am more pissed that I entertained the imbeciles of the comment section. For “men” to attack a woman for s truthful statement baffles me because if I said something to the effect of well if you want a woman that eats, date me. I would have had an exact opposite effect. I would have been told that I was delusional to think that he would want a woman like me. I do not understand this society and how it works. It almost like everybody wants to fight now and ask questions later. They do not want to understand where you are coming from and where you are coming from. Another situation I got into was at my job where the new girl was trying to escalate a situation dealing with my badge. I had been working there for months but it shows you how someone who has the wrong heart can escalate a situation. I have already stated in my podcast that I do not have room for those type of people anymore. It does not make any sense that men these days are bigger bitches than woman. I expect women to act a certain way, but it is damn ridiculous how these so-called men act now. How you made about something that has nothing to do with you? I have notice that you also have to be careful with thin skinned bans because they will kill you just for a misunderstanding. The last few stories I have seen with not only men but with young women killing people over a misunderstanding. This 19-year-old girl killed a mother of four at McDonald’s!!! I am pretty sure this dumbass little girl has no remorse and feels like she is making a statement to the world when in all actuality, she is sowing bad seeds. It seems that sowing bad seeds is becoming a popular thing, but it is raising a whole generation of bad seed reaping in the process. This goes back to the severely hurt babies I was talking about in one of my older posts. There are going to be inheriting a bad raping because their parents are choosing to be foul and not do better. I feel bad for those babies but in my next post. I will do a deeper look into that dream because I feel like it was warning me about the war with Hamas.