I’m starting a series talking about my theories relating to fictional and real-life situations. Today’s theory is that Martin actually had a crush on Pam. I know this is kind of a lame way to start off my theories, but this is my way of warming up. (I have a RHOBH on the way about why they are vilifying Sutton). I know a lot of people will be like Pam and Martin had a toxic relationship, but I am going to expose why Martin behaving toxic was his subconscious way of trying to fight the feeling. What I have realize is that black men don’t know to expressed themselves emotionally so what comes off as abrasive and aggressive is actually their way of being vulnerable. I have always felt like Martin had a thing for Pam in the worst way. Instead of dealing with it in he decided to crack jokes and drag Pam every chance he got. I have to be honest with yall and say I personally don’t know how to address this because this is quite a conundrum to be in so I can’t tell you how to deal with it. Anyway, this goes back to where there was an episode of Martin where him and Gina had a series of fantasy dreams. One of Martin’s dreams was that him and Pam was together, and, in the dream, he was okay with it. This to me was Martin’s subconscious coming to the surface and it freaked him out because he had no control over it. The point of that episode is that Martin should have addressed before it got out of control. Instead of holding it in until it manifested in another way. Also, I have had personally experience with boys having a crush on me and instead of addressing it in a healthy way they ended up blowing up at me. I do NOT condone Martin cheating on Gina, but I feel like he should have addressed it in a better way than verbal insults. This is why it is important for men to be able to express themselves better, so they won’t hurt people who don’t deserve to be hurt. I also felt like Cole was lowkey bisexual but that’s another story for another time.
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